The Stranger Libido

So have you ever wondered if a stranger has ever used you for a masturbation fantasy? Not a friend or significant other or acquaintance, but someone you'll never know or meet.

I mean, obviously you'd never know if they did or not. And I could see it being super awkward conversation. But, well, think about it (I don't think you can stop now that I've mentioned it, really). Someone just sees you on the street or through a window, and later you pop up in their fantasy, whether intentionally or not. Hell, you could show up in a sex dream of theirs and they not even realize who you are!

I have always wondered about it because, well, my libido is kinda wonky compared to what I consider the stereotypical "norm." I have never ever been able to think pictures of people in magazines or on TV were "hot." I have always needed some emotional and physical connection to get turned on at all. Once that happens my libido shoots through the roof, but otherwise it just kinda sits dormant, uninterested in strangers.

So, apparently, no one-night stands for me.

So I suppose what I'm tangentially getting at is, I don't really have that drive to fantasize about real people I've never met. Whether they're famous or just some good-looking stranger on the street, it just doesn't do it for me.

Maybe it's a girl thing, or maybe it's a me thing...